Head or Heart?

We're all wired differently. Some of us lean on intellect and logic, and others of us rely on heart and intuition. As a couple, are you similar to or different from each other? I like the free personality test found at 16Personalities that comes up with a description of your temperament based on four continuums. It's worth reading that site's background and theory, here. What I've hinted at here is the "S/N" (obServant/iNtuitive) continuum, but with a nod to the "T/F" (Thinking/Feeling) pairing as well.

Whether you are wired similarly to your partner, or differently, you'll see that you will create a "dance" as you maneuver through conflicts that come up. Many authors have written about dealing with your dance; one of the most helpful books is How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich.