WELCOME!
Ever feel like your significant other (or friend or family member; hereafter called "partner") is talking to you -- but all you hear is Charlie Brown's school teacher? "Wah-wah-wah-wah-wah!"
We don't listen in our culture. It's a lost art. This website is designed to give you basic coaching so you can learn to listen to your partner. That alone will help your relationship tremendously. But if you both come here and train, it'll be a huge intimacy booster. If you are familiar with Dr. John Gottman's relationship research, you might be skeptical about investing much time into communication skills. Well, CLICK HERE to read Dr. Gottman's position, and my thoughts about it.
Where to start? Click on TRAINING to see some easy-to-follow scripts to practice at the elementary level.
Or click on BLOG to enter the discussion of how your efforts are paying off.
Finally, click on ABOUT to learn my approach to helping couples communicate, my sources, and contact information (in case you want to come in for counseling).
